Don’t be aggressive
If you enjoy swinging with a person let them know in a polite, alluring way. If they are not interested that is their prerogative. Don’t ask any questions because it may make them feel uncomfortable. Don’t carry on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them, as this can do a lot more harm than good.

Alcohol
Most people like a few drinks at a party, drinking socially is fine, it can provide a good social platform to get to know people, it can also help you relax. Drinking excessively is not a good thing though, as it can hold back your physical and mental performance. I would have to say that is a bit of   a turn off for many people. If you need to drink heavily to participate in the party this isn’t the lifestyle for you.

 
Protect yourself

It is up to you to use protections. The use of condoms should not offend any one, it is not saying your dirty, it is simple a means to protect all parties involved. If you run into someone that is offended by this, chances are you are not the only person that they willing to have unprotected sex with so there chance of having a STD is pretty high. If for some reason all participating people are happy not to, it will be down to your discretion.

 
Never take someone to a party that doesn’t know what to expect

This is a palpable one. Why would you ever take someone to a party who doesn’t know what type of party it is? This would be rather embarrassing for every one, and probably will cause problems.

 
Don’t take a “ticket” to a swinger’s party
A ticket is someone who goes with you to the party just to get you in, but was never planning to participate in the activities. Of course no one HAS to swing, but if one person swings, it is normally expected that the other one is willing to swing.

 
The assembly room is for group swinging
Umm the last time a checked group means group. A group room is for “group swinging” the group room is for group swinging. If you want isolation, don’t go to the group room. If you take your partner with you into the swinging room you can expect others to ask to join you, obviously you still have the right to refuse but.. Come on.

 
Don’t disturb the swinging enjoyment of others
Chances are if you are in a group room the swingers are there for sexual activities. Do not disturb them by talking. You will break their mood. Not a good thing.

 
If a party is “BYO”, don’t drink someone else’s drink

BYO, also known as BYOB (bring your own booze) means you should probably only drink what you bring, unless you some one offers.

Doesn’t be a bedroom cruiser
Don’t disturb other swingers. Don‘t turn on lights or open doors so that you can watch. Mistakes do happen, and this isn’t a problem, but if you become known for such behavior then you will find that you won’t receive many invites in the future.

 
Have Fun

Beyond any tip I could ever give you, this is one of the most important ones. Have a good time, act out your dream, and enjoy yourself.

Call to say thanks
Always call or write to say thanks. This will make them want to invite you again.