It’s funny but they are right when they say that many young men, on reaching the age in their lives when pubescence takes control of their lateral thinking, find themselves fantasizing about older females, often twice their own age and upwards. It is not abnormal for a young boy that is still in early school years to have a little crush on his friends’ mom or the gym teacher.
The reason for this strange phenomenon of young males having an attraction to a more mature woman is because they are drawn to the fact that she has experience... a working knowledge of the male anatomy, and a sexual prowess not to be discovered so easily in a younger woman his own age.
Unfortunately for him in most cases his underlying lust stays a secret because they older female that he’s got his eye on wouldn’t even consider him being interested because she looks at him like a student or a friend of the family.
However, as the young male grows older, and gains his own level of experience, so his desire for the mature female wanes, and on reaching middle age, will frequently have his head 'turned' by a much younger woman.
All this is in desolate difference in the attraction patterns noted in the life of the female of the species. In most cases when the young girl becomes sexual aware her intimacy focus and desire will be on that of a young male. As he gets older she is not as interested in him. But why is it the case?
The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon, whilst oftentimes the source of amusement for some, can in fact develop into quite a powerful relationship, with loyalty, romance and chivalry being key factors in the union. Many women note that a guy around her own age or younger, will not show her the same level of respect, or pay as much attention to detail that his older counterpart will be inclined to show her.
How many times have you heard that women are more mature than men? This is why it should not be a surprise that when she get into her early to mid 30’s she is more interested in and finds more comfort in a man that is up to 20 years older than her. Compatible with a male ten or twenty years her senior. She will feel like she is on a whole different plain field than guys her own age on an emotional and romantic level. Her more mature partner is more equipped to seduce her mind as well as her body. He will be less afraid of displaying public affection, holding her hand or opening doors for her. Happy to allow the whole world see how proud he is to be by her side.
Although between the sheets he may not be as “athletic” as a younger man, he will still make sure that this woman is pleasured beyond her beliefs. Her younger lover will no doubt give her "the best seventeen seconds she's ever had", before pillaging her refrigerator on the hunt for beer. Whereas in the case of her older guy, the foreplay will begin in the restaurant with witty flirting, eye contact and laughter. Later they will enjoy the afterglow together; the passion may have subsided but the emotion still very much alive.
So where the term “Sugar Daddy” comes from did and what does it mean? It was first hear of in the early 1920's. The dictionary describes it as "A wealthy older man who gives a young person expensive gifts in return for friendship or intimacy". The sugar in this term alluded to the sweetening role of the gifts, and daddy to the age difference between the pair. This is rarely about love.
