The ropes of pleasing a woman are as follows:

Tap Dancing

Place the palm of your hand where her pubic hair is, and rest your fingers lightly on her vaginal lips. Rest your thumb on her thigh. Lightly but firmly press your palm onto her mons and begin to move your hand in a tiny circular motion. Your palm should not slide too much over her skin during this process. Rather, her skin should move underneath it. Repeat this process until you have done ten circles. You then raise your fingers and lightly tap her vaginal lips about once a second until you have given her ten taps. After giving the taps, rest your hand for five to ten seconds. Then repeat the whole routine over and over.

Labial Massage

Make sure that your hands are lubricated well. Put it on her labia, fingers pointing towards her anus. Pull up toward the belly button and rotate hands. Explore the inner and outer lips with your fingers. Pull softly on one lip and then the other. Caress the outer lips softly between your forefinger and thumb, then the inner lips.

Close But No Cigar

Everyone has a button that will cause them to go mad if pushed. More than likely you already know your partners body. Find that button and play all around it without ever touching it. This trick will make them take longer to reach their orgasm, but they will likely have a much stronger, more powerful orgasm when they finally do.

A-One and A-Two and a-Three

Try inserting your first two fingers into her vagina, then arch your thumb back 'hitch-hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. Now wriggle, twist, thrust, and vibrate your hand to drive her wild.

Push Here to Start

Put one finger in at a time. Just as she starts to get comfortable, place your thumb against the anus without inserting it.  Press against her anus while you move your fingers inside her vagina.

Cervix Clock

A woman's cervix can usually be found in the upper rear part of her vagina. The cervix feels like a little dome of tissue, and may also have a small cleft in the middle, like your chin. Carefully stimulate the area surrounding the cervix. Some women may enjoy this and want you to do it more often; others won't.

From the Outside

Put you hands write about the vagina, on the lower part of the abdominal region. Play around with pressures applied to the stomach with the top of the hand. Use the other hand to finger her gently.