Swinging can be a lot of fun. It is an alternative sexual activity that more and more people seem to experimenting with. Before you get your hands wet, there are a few things that you should take into consideration.

·         It is okay to be near your partner while you are at a swingers party, but it would be wise to go around and mingle with other members.  Don’t hold on to on another so much that other swingers think there is no where for them to fit. Chances are you will not be approached.

·         There is a big possibility that the party will go nude. If you are not comfortable with it you do not have to participate. You will not be judged. It is best if you try to participate in as much as you can. If you change into something more revealing will help others include you and make you feel more involved.

·         No matter what is going on around you it is imperative that you are completely honest about what you are feeling. Do not allow things to go on that you are not comfortable with. If you don’t discuss it with your partner it may be obvious to the others that something is not right. This could make the rest of the experience awkward

·         As much as you may want to ask a billion questions about it, don’t. Chances are the other participants will want to “show you the ropes.”

·         Try to join in on other conversations and gatherings that are around the party. This will give you a better chance of meeting people more comfortably. Having an intimate conversation can be saved for another time. .

·         Try as hard as you can to leave your inhibitions at home, both sexual and social. Having hang ups at a time like this could make things awkward for both you and your partner. You cannot look for much out of a swingers party if your not prepared to put much in.

Ÿ  Don’t act like someone else, be yourself and good natured. A warm smile has a positive effect on every body.

Ÿ  Should arrive and leave with your partner.

Ÿ  Always be on time. Coming to a party late is a big no- no. It will also make it a little harder for you to fit in. If you are going to be tardy because of traffic or other appointments, just call and give them a heads up.

Ÿ  The swinging way of life has a lot of people that are full of insecurities and uncertainties. Being polite can help make them and you feel more comfy. Do unto others as you would have them do to you. delicately, considerately, thoughtfully.