There are a lot of sexual acts out there. The most misunderstood one of all is anal sex. Despite the fact that one out of every four women has engaged in anal sex, the practice remains taboo. Most women are afraid to ever even try it because of all the horror stories and myths they’ve heard.
What these women don’t realize is if the technique is done properly anal sex is very enjoyable. The anus contains a vast supply of nerves, and is one of our most erogenous zones. Stroking, massaging, or any other stimulation of the anus is very enjoyable. I have a lot of women say that they have the best orgasms from anal sex. I would like you to take a look at these myth busters below.
1. The anus is not clean.
Early in our childhood, we are taught that the anus is dirty and should not be touched. Sometimes our parents even go as far as saying that our vagina is not to be touched as well. If we know nothing else we now know that stimulation of either of these areas are pleasurable.
If the anus is clean properly, on a daily basis; it is cleaner that other parts of the body. It does contain its own natural bacteria, though, and to avoid infections, it is highly suggested that you never move anything from your anus to your vagina.
2. Anal sex isn’t health
So many women have heard that anal sexy causes tears or hemorrhoids. You will also hear some women express that they fear losing control over their anal muscles. If done properly it does not have to put your rectum or anus in danger. And as long as your partner does not have a sexually transmitted infection, neither semen nor sperm are harmful to your rectum.
3. It Hurts
They sexual act should not be a painful experience. If it hurts, you are doing something wrong. There are techniques to this delicacy. The keys to pleasurable anal sex are relaxation, lubrication and education. Relaxing the external sphincter will make anal sex easier and more pleasurable. Unlike the vagina, your anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, so it is best if you use a lot of water-based lubricants to further increase your pleasure.
4. Anal sex is a perverted, unnatural act.
Anal sex has been and will be around for a very long time. I met a woman who was a virgin in the sense of not having traditional intercourse, but instead only having anal sex. If you are uncomfortable with any sexual act, don't do it! You are in charge of what you do sexually.
Before you even attempt to do this it is best if you do research for yourself. Learn the anatomy of your anus so that you understand the process and to perhaps learn how to make it a pleasurable experience for you and your partner.
