When you pick a dildo you have to pick one that fits you perfect. The material, its purpose, and the size shape and color are all things to take into consideration when making your purchase.

Choosing a dildo material: Silicone dildos

These are made of 100% silicone and know to be the best quality dildos available. They may be on the high of dildos, but it will be well worth the investment. They are typically priced anywhere between $50 to $100. 

Silicone retains its temperature, can be picked according to size, shape, and color, strong and clean, and most importantly durable.

Silicone is an ideal choice if you are concerned about allergies or reacting to toys in any way. You can now get silicone that feels hyper realistic (like cyberskin dildos, but safer, cleaner, and more durable). Do not use silicone based lubricants on the dildo. It is best to use water based lubricants.

How to choose a dildo

Jelly Rubber dildos are very inexpensive and available in a wide range of colors, shapes and sizes. They have a resilient bouncy feel to them.

You are advised to use latex condoms with them because they contain phthalates which is a chemical that has linked to health problems. You are welcome to use every lubricant except oil based ones.

Cyberskin is used as a general term for dildos that are made of a very soft, lifelike material intended to mimic real skin and the density of a real penis. They are known for being firm on the inside and soft on the surface. Unfortunate they are not the most durable and the do not clean up as well as the jelly rubber. Unlike jelly rubber it does not contain phthalates. The easiest way to keep them clean is to use a condom and water based lubricant.

Dildos are also available in a variety of hard materials, including metal dildos, glass dildos and acrylic/plastic dildos. These dildos tend to be beautiful looking, and are often handmade by artisans rather than mass manufactured in a rubber factory.

There are many different uses of dildos. If you are planning on using a harness it is best if you use a wide flare base. It should be relatively flexible and at least six inches long. The dildo should also be firm.

If you are using your dildo in a harness you don’t need to use the whole length, but a dildo that’s too short can be annoying in a harness. If you are planning to use your dildo for anal sex, you should choose a dildo that has no seams, no sharp edges or corners and should have a wide flared base.