The word erogenous means, “especially sensitive to sexual stimulation, as certain areas of the body: erogenous zones.” Apart from the obvious bits that we all share (like the penis and the clitoris), each of us has our own secret area that sends frantic Oh Baby Right there! messages to all the right places. It could be anything from having someone sucking your nipple to being lick on the inner thigh. There are few places on our bodies that we don't like being touched. Why restrict foreplay to the breasts and genitals when the entire body is itching for attention?
One of the reasons why people say they stayed in a relationship because it was comfortable is because it is not always easy to get to know a new person’s body. Like a new city, you should take an orientation tour to get your bearings? So how cool would it be if you heated a room to the right temperature had your partner lie on the bed naked and you have your way. Start with the back and soft touches from the neck all the way to the tailbone. Rub your face on your partners back and smell them. Follow your face with your tongue. Then turn him over and stroke a feather around his penis and scrotum (if it‘s a woman, kiss her inner thighs very close to her vagina. Take the time to search for his or her ultimate pleasure zones.
Once you’ve turned them over, take a moment to look into their eyes. Stroke their face while kissing them. Softly run your fingers through their hair.
Massage his feet, kiss her toes, massage his hands, then take each finger into your mouth and suck it, pretending it's his penis or clitoris.
Save the goodies for last. Don’t go straight for the private parts. Use long, sensual strokes up their inner thighs until they’re trembling with desire.
Everybody loves their butt massaged. Talk about arousing. Listen for heavier breathing or moaning when you massage them. Don't neglect the perineum (the bit between your genitals and your anus). Press firmly and massage with two fingers, gently stroking along the entire length; use your tongue to do the same. On a woman, licking her and or gently biting her bottom would take her to pure bliss.
Use your fingers to rub along the outline of their lips, and then insert a finger into the mouth for them to suck. Do the same with your nipples. Another wonderful snack is the neck. The neck is one of the most sensitive places on our bodies.
Lips are a pretty powerful tool. Kiss them all over their body. Start from either the top or the bottom and work all the way up. For women, use your whole body to massage his. Lie on top of him when he's lying on his back or front, gyrate slowly and revel in the simple sensation of skin against skin.
Once you have decided to take someone to be your lover, your number one goal should be to touch them in all the right places. Being in tune with someone’s body is vital. Happy Exploring.
