Changing things up in the bedroom is always fun. Variety really is the spice of life, especially when it comes to sexual relationships. It is already difficult for some of us to be monogamous. To ensure a healthy and exclusive relationship you‘ve got to be creative and sexually experimental. .
If you think you want to try something new, we recommend the following activities, all of which are great for beginners and can be escalated into more serious play as your comfort level grows.
· Shaving So many people are having fun with shaving their partners pubic hair; either shaping it into different shapes or removing it completely. Until you’ve tried it, don’t assume that you and your partner wouldn’t have fun doing it. Shaving is an easy, safe and temporary way to begin exploring different forms of sexual play.
· Oral Sex Although it seems like something that everybody does, you would be surprised how many people stick to kissing and intercourse. If you fall into this latter category, please, don't feel uncomfortable! You aren't alone. Oral sex is something that you definitely have to try with someone that you are extremely comfortable. To avoid some of the awkwardness, take a shower together so that neither of you are concerned with foul tastes or smells. Read up on how to do it before you try it. Consider practicing on your hand.
Ÿ Fantasy & Role Play We all have fantasies. Some of us imagine saving our lovers from a burning building. She has stripped naked and he is dressed in a fireman’s uniform. Or how about, swarthy pirate meets helpless maiden? Make it happen. This is an excellent way to explore our sexual life. Role playing, taking on the persona of a different person , is essential to fantasy; by taking on a different role, we free ourselves of our "normal" boundaries, and can help us to discover new things about ourselves.
· Bondage & Domination Although it may seem like something you would have never tried, many couples are starting to experiment with bondage and domination. How would you like your lover to tie you up, blind fold you and tease you. Because you can’t see, you would never know if a bite is coming, a spanking or feathers.
· Anal Play If you've never experimented with this form of love play but are curious about it, you very likely feel a mixture of shame, extreme discomfort and arousal when you think about anal play. The topic of anything involving the anus has been taboo for years. If you have ever run into a sexual freak then you know that a little anal player can really send you over the edge. It can be very exciting and satisfying, partly because we tend to become excited by things we perceive as "forbidden," but also because the anus contains a high concentration of nerve endings, making it one of the most erogenous zones on the body. If you are limiting yourself to only anal “play” then you don’t really have to worry about any type of penetration. All of the contact will be r external stimulation.
Don’t let societies hang ups or your conservative nature stop you from spicing up your sexual life. Experimenting could lead to sexual bliss and a very healthy relationship.
