It seems that everyone is talking about multiple orgasms these days. I cannot tell you how many times I have slept with a guy and because I didn’t have an orgasm, he felt like it wasn’t good for me. Men literally get a complex about not giving woman an orgasm if not multiples. They put a self afflicted pressure on themselves.

For some women multiple orgasms are like candy: they’re addictive, sweet and very satisfying. When you have an orgasm one after the other, it is called “serial multiple.” The “sequential orgasm” can be like a roller coaster ride interspersed with peaks and lulls with a few minutes between each incredible burst of ecstasy. You could also buildup to almost having an orgasm numerous times and then you hit an unbearably good orgasm.

All different types of orgasms are within reach, but it is up to the woman’s biology and preference to do so. It is folly to assume that she wants to ride that roller coaster or just scale Everest once in an evening. Communication is not just good when it comes to general relationships, it is also very important when it comes to sexual relationships. Talk to her, listen to her and let her know that you want to pleasure her in the ways she wants. A lot of women don’t realize that they should as well have a grasp of the way their bodies are made and what they need. There was a time in my life when I had no idea how to have an orgasm.

In order for her to be comfortable you need to set the atmosphere. If you want  her to have a night of peaks, she’ll need to surrender herself to the experience, and she’ll need to be at ease to do so. Her mind needs to be at peace and her body needs to be completely relaxed. You have to set that mood for her. Clean sheets, downy pillows, tissues by the bed, soft lighting, and subtle scents in the air will aid in creating that easy atmosphere. It is always good to do a little self grooming if you have time before she gets there as well. Turn your cell off and the ringer off on your home phone so than nothing interrupts the mood.

While her body rests from its latest mind-blowing peak, keep the momentum and energy going with your mouth, mind, lips, and tongue. Yes you could very well go down on her, but verbally caressing her and keeping her mind sexually engaged will set the success in multiple orgasms. You will be able to maintain her physical desire if you are descriptive in telling her how wonderful she feels, how amazing she looks and how beautiful her body is. Be creative and inventive with your words.

If you know the kind of stimulation she likes, such as clitoral, vaginal or G spot, it may be wise to keep it that way and just change the position or technique. If you know that the last time you made her have an orgasm was when you played with her clitoral, hit that same trigger, but try a different angle or speed. This will effectively aid her in reaching another intense orgasm. Don’t be afraid to try something different though. You may show her something that she didn’t know would stimulate her. A vaginal or G-spot rub may hit the spot. Just like you, sometime after we have an orgasm our clitorises are unbearably sensitive.  When and if this occurs, attend to another sweet spot while her bundle of nerves recovers. Here, communication continues to be a key point.