To some men, your body is a wonderland. Really, they wonder where — and how — to touch you. Do you have any idea how many men have the slightest idea where the clitoris is? Some men were under the impression that it was deep in the vagina.
It’s not like many men would disclose that they have the slightest idea where the clitoris is. Well, you can blame it on everything from tall tales told in locker rooms to ex-girlfriends who faked it to the boggling female body, with its small, sometimes hidden parts.
A guy may get somewhere in the general area but still miss the bulls eye because he is too nervous to check it out. Would you go as far turning the lights off and just exploring someone’s vaginal area? If you take the time to do something like this you may make her toes curl? Here are some tips.
Get On Top or Grab His Butt
When it comes to intercourse, it's easy to let clitoral action fall by the wayside, since the majority of positions fail to hit that hot spot. This is why it is so difficult for most women to have an orgasm during intercourse.
To get clitoral stimulation during sex, hop on top, and have him stroke your clitoris (the thumb works well here). When he is on top, grab his butt and guide him to thrust slowly and deeply so your clitoris rubs against his pelvic bone. He has full access to your clitoris for rubbing while he does doggie-style.
Teach Him How to Touch You
During foreplay, guide his hand to your clitoris, and show him how to touch you with the rhythm and firmness you like. Men are goal-oriented, so they often figure the faster and harder they work it down there, the more powerful your orgasm will be. Of course, it's not that simple, which is why it's important for you to set the tone.
Take his fingertips and put it against your clit, make his hands and circle it around so that it hit’s the nerve. For a twist that will turn you both on, lie facing each other, take his penis, and use the tip of it to demonstrate how you like your clitoris to be touched (you might want to apply a water-based lube first).
Oral Sex
You have to teach your man how you like it. Most men will stick to the same motion over and over again. It’s not good to always change, but after a while, your nerves grow numb to repeated sensation, so he needs to mix things up.
One way to make sure that the pace and concentration are different is to make him put his lips around your clitoris (making sure to cover his teeth), and change back and forth between gently sucking it and teasing it with his tongue. At the same time, you can grind your pelvis against his mouth to get the pressure you desire.
