If you enjoy swinging with a person let them know in a polite, alluring way. You will not win everyone over. If you are hit with a turndown, don’t take any personal offense. Everyone is entitled to their preference and opinion.  Don’t ask any questions because it may make them feel uncomfortable. Harassing someone will only make you look like a fool. 

It is great if you have some one to join you at the swinging activity. It is very important that you make sure that the person that will be accompanying you is fully aware of what to expect. If would be embarrassing to you, the person and other swingers if the person is not a swinger and is offended by it in some way.

Most people like a few drinks at a party, drinking socially is fine, it can provide a good social platform to get to know people, it can also help you relax. Getting drunk at this type of function could be a bit much. It should be a conscious effort to limit yourself to the amount of drinks that you know will get you nice and tipsy.  If you need to drink heavily to participate in the party this isn’t the lifestyle for you.

No matter how much fun you are having it is so important that you use protection. Do not look to anyone else to provide you with a condom. If someone is offending by the fact that you want to use one, pass. This is a matter of life and death.

If you see a group of people in a room having sexual activities, do not disturb them. If you want to be a part, you should start you own group. Chances are these people that are already in the middle of sex have already gone through their introduction and have connected with one another. (literally)

Don’t disturb other swingers. Don‘t turn on lights or open doors to that you can watch. Mistakes do happen, and this isn’t a problem, but if you become known for such behavior then you will find that you won’t receive many invites in the future.

It is understandable if you prefer not to be in a large group of people for sexual activity. If you want isolation, don’t go to the group room. If you in all actuality are there to have a true swinger experience you should be prepared to participate in group activities. If you take your partner with you into the swinging room you can expect others to ask to join you, obviously you still have the right to refuse but

The most important thing about this is that you have fun. You have had the fantasy and thoughts about doing this and now the time is here. Love every second of it.